Monday, April 6, 2009

Guess Whose Back in the Muthafuckin House...


So… I've not done this in a really long time… I feel like a virgin all over again… I feel like there's so much to say….

1. The last time I wrote was Thanksgiving… I ended up going to Thanksgiving with my ex of sorts… and it wasn't a good time to say the very least… aside from getting the cold shoulder from his then new "boyfriend" I was also touted as a home wrecker by other guest in attendance… nonetheless, he broke up with the "boyfriend" immediately after Thanksgiving… and it's been a rollercoaster ride of sorts as we have tried to navigate and define our relationship in terms of being friends…

2. I moved into a new place… in Harlem… that I really love... I think that having a backyard will greatly enhance my quality of life here in NY…

3. I'm dating… on a serious kind of tip right now… I think it can be a good look for me…

4. Speaking of a new look… I have decided to let my hair grow out some and my summer sexy is in full effect, as I have been hitting the gym like a mad man…

5. I was recently invited to join my first board here in NY and I'm really excited about that…

On the inquisitive side of things…

1. How do we feel about herpes?

2. Can someone tell me the relevance of certain reality shows? I have sat in front of the TV and asked myself what's the point of watching this boring shit.

3. If you are top and your bottom has a bigger "candy man" (that's what my mother called it when I was a child) than you, how does that make you feel? Should you get over it or is it a deal breaker?

4. Is it trashy to have a hickey?

5. I was invited into a threesome… any tips?

6. I feel that masturbation at the gym runs rampant… in the shower... In the steam room… what do you do, join in?

7. There's this movie out called "The New Twenty." It proclaims that "friends are the new family." I love that concept.

8. Leanita McClain….

9. I want to pick up a cause that's center in some way in the black gay community, but my experiences in the past having really been all that positive…

10. Can I get rid of all my clothes and start over???

2 comments:

onesoulfulnegro said...

well welcome back sir.

1. is this a relationship you feel will benefit from definition and terms?

2. bbq's on the 4th of july? do you need to buy a lawn mower? ; )

3. *smiles*

4. have you now? well good that you got back up on that. maybe you can motivate me to go...HA!

5. what is the board?

i live inquisitive natures...

1. ummm..herpes is not cute! i've known people with it....not a good look AT ALL!

2. seeing as i don't watch 99.9% of reality tv. i can't tell you.

3.i want to ask you ma why she called it a candy man. LOL. you should get over it.

4. you're asking the wrong one because i am good for giving them...i don't think it is...i mean you probably shouldn't have them ALL over, but shit....

5. ::insert side-eye::

6. i think that shit could be real hot though. it's the exhibitionist in me though.

7. the perfect concept. i love it.

8. google...

9. can't let getting burned deter you from the greater purpose.

10. sure....it's always fun starting over..

7.

@GaryTylone said...

Is there room in the backyard for a tent? I don't ask for much...

Herpes:The gift that keeps on giving.

I've often heard its not uncommon for the bttm's "candy man" to be bigger than the top's and possibly occurs more often than not except for in porn.

The gym? What is that?

You know how women can walk around naked with each other and share tampons and other such things in the bathroom? maybe thats what masturbation is in a man's gym...or just pervy.

My mommy told me hickeys will give you cancer...so..